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Losing yourself in a toxic relationship?

Relationships are beautiful but if it starts making questioning about your own self and have several thoughts about your dignity then girl you are in a great danger! 


"If it costs you, your peace, it's too expensive.'' this famous quote by Paulo Coelho you should remember and make sure that this should be your answer when you feel stuck and living in doubts.


Some Common/Familiar Signs :


✓ He used to tell you, your friends are not going to understand 'him' or 'us'. That, those friends are so manipulative in nature. These made you feel miserable and always put you in a place where you dodge between him or them?


   ...I feel you.


✓ Next, less eye contact or let's just say never face any of your direct questions and if, sometimes he does, every time gives an unclear answer.


This happens! I know, this happens. The reason is, he knows that how you have started questioning and that means, you have stopped believing him blindly. So, it's a fear for him! 



✓ Coming to another thing, no wish to tell you his day's plans or random stuffs that have already added to his schedule, and not even ask you about your day plans, and if this makes you blank and clueless, then believe me, I can feel you.

There are so many things go around which filled with questions but whether you try to search and gather pieces for answers, you will never get those rather only the number of questions would arise. Then you should stop!


Don't lose yourself please. You don't realize that you became detached from your true self. But, trust me, you don't deserve to live in those labyrinth. I would say not a single soul need to stay there where their mental peace is hanging with a question mark!!



Save yourself! Please ask yourself questions that will you be fine to feel this way for upcoming days?


Ask yourself because, no one will walk for you, except you.


I will say, without finding answers from others, believe in you, be the best friend of yours, and become strong enough to make a decision. Nothing is precious than you, and that's why lose oneself is not a thing to tolerate. 

Leave it. You are more than you are living now.

Shine on. Mark my words, because I had been there and I believe in passing positivity from one woman to another.


Let's be connected this way, shall we?


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  1. UnknownAugust 27, 2021 at 1:57 PM

    Well, I strongly believe that these happens on both ways ....
    Really hard to accept for that person .....well crafted appreciate ur work ......complements certainly give some wonderful motivation to the writer, I guess
    You are an INCREDIBLE writter

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