Is trying again and again wrong?
In a situation? What you need to remember in a toxic situation?
When I was in my teen, I usually gave up so easily or the perfect word should be not try enough! If I found something is not working at the first place then that's it, I cut it. Never tried to understand why this was like that and how to fix it. Not really believe in second chances. But at the age of now, I quite try to make things going and putting efforts to understand what is the actual situation heading to and after that most important is own understanding towards the situation. I give another try to that person/ people/ situation or anything. Trying again, and maybe, again and again is used to give me a lot of things later actually:
1) Will be no regrets that I haven't tried enough!
2) will know my limits.
3) Understand my own self a little more in various ways.
4) Through the journey, one can evolve a lot.
So after all the trying if still I have that feeling of not fulfilling my expectations, then I would stop the 'going' process. Then the time came for me that "this is it". And it's okay, that some things are not actually made to go alongside with me. Of course it is painful, sometimes it hurts like hell as I had been attached to that for so many times. But one should remember that, this letting go situation wouldn't come to stop anyone, it is rather a push for forever, so instead of keeping those hard things with you which can make it forever, I will detach it from me. Also in life one should survive only with mind full of positivity, because it'll reflect on your works, and also other people only feel attracted towards other positive people, remember that!
So, make pause if you want and if you need but don't stop yourself from evolving.
So this is my thoughts and tips to handle a toxic situation. These are my methods. I thought of sharing this, if you can relate or maybe this will help you. Also, always try to see a broader vision of every negative situation cause it will only take you to there where you belong!
So am stopping here today. I will come back soon and till then stay positive.
In a situation? What you need to remember in a toxic situation?
When I was in my teen, I usually gave up so easily or the perfect word should be not try enough! If I found something is not working at the first place then that's it, I cut it. Never tried to understand why this was like that and how to fix it. Not really believe in second chances. But at the age of now, I quite try to make things going and putting efforts to understand what is the actual situation heading to and after that most important is own understanding towards the situation. I give another try to that person/ people/ situation or anything. Trying again, and maybe, again and again is used to give me a lot of things later actually:
1) Will be no regrets that I haven't tried enough!
2) will know my limits.
3) Understand my own self a little more in various ways.
4) Through the journey, one can evolve a lot.
So after all the trying if still I have that feeling of not fulfilling my expectations, then I would stop the 'going' process. Then the time came for me that "this is it". And it's okay, that some things are not actually made to go alongside with me. Of course it is painful, sometimes it hurts like hell as I had been attached to that for so many times. But one should remember that, this letting go situation wouldn't come to stop anyone, it is rather a push for forever, so instead of keeping those hard things with you which can make it forever, I will detach it from me. Also in life one should survive only with mind full of positivity, because it'll reflect on your works, and also other people only feel attracted towards other positive people, remember that!
So, make pause if you want and if you need but don't stop yourself from evolving.
So this is my thoughts and tips to handle a toxic situation. These are my methods. I thought of sharing this, if you can relate or maybe this will help you. Also, always try to see a broader vision of every negative situation cause it will only take you to there where you belong!
So am stopping here today. I will come back soon and till then stay positive.
Such an honest and liberating self potrayal. Loved it.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much. ❤️
DeleteYou are right, positivity brings more positivity. Loved reading your thoughts 🌸
ReplyDeleteYes, positivity is the key.
DeleteThank you so much. 💓