An Observer! 🌼

HOW TO DEAL WITH LONELINESS ??? Haruki Murakami, in his novel "Sputnik Sweetheart" talked about the spaceship 'Sputnik', where the dog alone named Laika went there, for traveling to the eternity. And Murakami wondered, how did the dog feel, totally alone in this whole universe, what did he concentrate about there! So, like Laika, we all are the same. Sometimes we all feel so lonely, there are a lot of people around us but we don't feel any connections with them. Murakami's this thought is one of the deepest thought I've ever read. From this, I want to say that when you feel that much of loneliness, everything around you started feeling so misleading, then, firstly just accept what's your feeling at that moment, but I would say, don't live in that feeling long. Feeling of loneliness can damage you immensely and resulted into depression. I would say, you should stop thinking that way. I will suggest, in loneliness, try some different things to e...

Is trying again and again wrong?  In a situation? What you need to remember in a toxic situation? When I was in my teen, I usually gave up so easily or the perfect word should be not try enough! If I found something is not working at the first place then that's it, I cut it. Never tried to understand why this was like that and how to fix it. Not really believe in second chances. But at the age of now, I quite try to make things going and putting efforts to understand what is the actual situation heading to and after that most important is own understanding towards the situation. I give another try to that person/ people/ situation or anything. Trying again, and maybe, again and again is used to give me a lot of things later actually: 1) Will be no regrets that I haven't tried enough! 2) will know my limits. 3) Understand my own self a little more in various ways. 4) Through the journey, one can evolve a lot. So after all the trying if still I have that feeling of n...

As we all know, this is a hard time we all are going through. During this time, everything changed and keep changing day by day. Our lifestyle, habits, priorities, way of thinking and as a person in whole. This quarantine days help us to sit with ourselves, to make a pause in our running and fast moving tendencies. When the whole world is taking rest, and I was thinking that what do we learn from this situation! Of course, it is happening for a reason. So figured out some things in this quarantine and listing it some points that what to learn from this situation or rather I would say this quarantine will make us- a) SELF SUFFICIENT: Yes, as we all are in the house for 24 hours and in maximum households maids are also maintaining quarantine, so in a house we can understand how much work we have. So, this situation is making us to do our own things like I never washed clothes before but right now, I do, everyday. b) BECOME MORE ORGANIZED: As the circumstances here and to our...

           I am recommending some movies which will give you some interests on those genre which you don't like that much or perhaps not watched movies on this genre. Let's see, if you like these movies or not! From each section, I will give you two recommendations. Also, I have to mention here that, today I only focussed on English movies. #hollywood 🖤 So am giving some popular genre here one by one. Starting with romance genre.. 1> If you don't like Romance  movies.. I often heard that some people don't like romantic movies. Well then, I will suggest that please go and watch these two at least.. a) PRIDE AND PREJUDICE (2005) - to understand the society, thinking and how love embedded through all of these. And instead of unrealistic love story, this story is realistic and deals with dignity. b) LETTERS TO JULIET (2010) - so it was from 2010 and still my favorite. It has beautiful scenarios of Italy and this story deals with the dee...

WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR MIND IS DISTURBED? First of all, let's up for a high five. We all go through a place every now and then or sometimes it lingers for some times. That is the time when you should do a lot more work which will keep you busy. According to me, this is so much important to free your mind a little bit from that stress. Here am listing some of the things you can do: 1) WATCHING MOVIES :      That is a high time when you could dive into another world for 2-3 hours! That gives you a complete different mood I can assure that. Choose any movie from any genre or just googling it if you want. But my advice is to watch light heart movies, comedy movies, inspiring movies, maybe romance. Cause your mind already had heaviness. So let's not go into deep stories. 2) READING ; FICTION OR NON-FICTION :     Yes, as we all know reading is a mind engaging pill. Though I can understand not everyone like reading books. But let's try it! Becau...